Social anxiety 

Tasha Thor-Straten • 12 April 2021

I'm helping a lot of people feel more confident about getting back into social settings at work, with family & friends.

Not surprising, as the messages we're seeing & listening to are a bit confusing.

I've just heard a radio advert saying "you can meet people outside, BUT don't get too close".

It's like giving a child an ice cream & telling them not to lick it, isn't it?

Social anxiety can :-

  • feel like not wanting to be around lots of people
  • feel like not wanting to leave the house & see anyone
  • feel like not wanting to make & take phone calls
  • feel unsettling, as you're not sure if your friends are feeling the same as you
  • feel scary, as you've never experienced this before
  • feel numb, as you have disconnected with your emotions
  • feel guilty, as you could be increasing the risk of COVID infection with your loved ones

Watch the video for a great thought-change tip if you're feeling a bit wonky about being around people.

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